I’m not really one for boyfriends and I’m not on a hunt for a husband – I’ve still got way too much I want to do before I have to start considering someone else’s feelings – which is probably a good thing as dating when you’re in or have been in the adult/sex industry is HARD.I know people who’ve worked in the industry for years and hold down strong, committed relationships but I just never, ever find men who are serious and I have met a of men. I’ve given up on finding my Ryan Gosling – “NOW SAY YOU’RE A BIRD TOO” – but I do always like to have at least one man on the go at any given time and to keep my hand in on the dating apps.Children want to know that their parents are in love and that they enjoy one another; this brings peace and stability to a home.Having a consistent date night doesn’t guarantee a healthy marriage, but it does offer intentional space to grow together as a couple. Date night won’t add much to a relationship if there is no real connection.Yet, we invest in what we value, and spending money to date each other is a direct reflection of the value we place on our relationship.
It can feel difficult to justify that much cash just to get some one-on-one time together.But now, with jobs, grad school and a child, the margins in our life have become very small.Time is a precious commodity to both of us, and when we willingly spend that time with one another, we are saying you are worth my time.When we short-change our spouse, we short-change the family.As a mom, I want Ella to have everything she needs (and more).
Please, let’s spend the rest of our date with you telling me how many other women you want to stick your dick in because truly I think you may be the one I end up marrying. I sometimes make adult movies but mainly I’m a webcam performer”. Later, after he attempted to buy a bottle of champagne in a Weatherspoons, I made my excuses to leave. All experiences and memories are, obviously, my own and I am only giving my personal opinions on things; I am not a representative of everyone in the adult industry.