By being honest and letting them down easy, you avoid playing games. If you don’t get it, don’t play games by taking that out on the next person you date.Rule #5: Know When to Say “Game Over” Just as you should not play dating games, you will want to avoid getting played.
Your job is to pay attention to that red flag and not pursue them.
When someone’s actions are contrary to their words, this is not only a red flag, it’s gut-check time.
By paying attention and screening out potential partners whose actions don’t match their words, you cut down on wasted dating time and make it that much easier to attract potential partners worth your time and energy.
A positive example would be if you were on a date with someone and they seemed nervous but well intentioned, your gut might tell you to give them a second chance.
By going on a second date, you’ll gain a better understanding of who they really are and if you’d like to see them again.
And in basketball, officials dumped the no-dunk rule after fans complained that it made play less exciting. Women not only spent less time looking at a man’s face (when compared with men looking at women); they also moved more quickly onto his other body parts. “So take in her breasts or legs, but don’t dwell on them.” And make the most of your assets, too.