I have a nervous personality, so I need a guy who can tell me to relax.I’m very social and love entertaining, so I need someone who can hold their own and have a conversation without me holding his hand.When you meet someone new, don’t be jaded or bitter.You don’t know how things will end up with this person, so give them a chance. Telling the attractive lawyer that you want three kids and already have their names picked out on the second date is not a good idea. When you’ve been in a lot of unsuccessful relationships, a natural defense mechanism is to put your guard up.Wanting all of these things is okay, but grilling every person you date to see if they have what it takes to be the parent of your children is not.Focus on having fun and getting to know the person.
You haven’t met the one, you’re not married, you don't live in a beautiful house, and you don't have babies.I enjoy learning new things, so I want a partner who is willing to teach me stuff.If you’ve never really thought about what you want in a partner, I suggest you figure it out soon.Age is just a number—it only matters when you make it matter.When I was in my mid-20s, I wanted a guy who drove a nice car and who could afford to take me to a fancy restaurant.
, I’m always a little shocked to realize that I’m the same age as Carrie and her friends.