Search by body type (you want thin and athletic only) and be prepared to go to local big cities if you don’t live in one. OKC is a site populated by people who are younger, freakier, and have way more crazy shit going on in their lives than any of the other sites I’ll cover.
Mostly a free site, but with an A List upgrade that will let you see who “likes” you and sort by body type and “attractiveness,” this one has the crazies.
That being said, if you want to pay for an online dating site, I’d choose this one, and make sure you don’t have a recurring subscription.
The typical girl is a few years younger than the E Harmony girl, still pre-wall, but probably ugly or overweight, and out of college and in the first years of her power-career path.
This is important because the ONLY girls you will see are the ones they send you.
It an easy to use site, with an active membership base-ideal for those serious about dating.
However, for those with specific needs with regards to age or with alternative dating lifestyles, a more niche dating site may be better, or at least one that allows a better choice of definitive markers.
If you want a two-spirited, pansexual satanist with blue hair, 50% or greater tattoo skin coverage, and more hardware in her piercings than the bolt aisle at Home Depot, this is the place for you.
They have a beleaguered match function, but most everything is done by manual searching and a bunch of insipid, but weirdly creative while wildly inappropriate questions.
Being one of the oldest and largest dating website, Match has positioned itself as the leading site for finding best matches online. has a very attractive layout with photos of available singles prominently displayed, easy-to-use search features and several advice columns.