I can’t tell you the number of times when she wants to start a “serious” conversation around in the morning.
Likewise, I occassionally push for doing our “serious” talks early in the morning.
Of course there are issues that can cause HUGE problems in the relationship (an example would be having an affair), but it is still important to realize why you are in love with that person.
Don’t think that there has to be a “winner” and a “loser” – If there was a contest between who was the “winner” and who was the “loser” in my relationship, my fiance would win consistently.
You may have multiple issues that you have to talk about, but try and focus on talking through one of them before you get to the next one.
I know that if my fiance and I are fighting about something, I like to look at the big picture. ” Chances are it’s something random that won’t affect your relationship in the long run.Sadly, I have been on that side of the fence as well and will share some tips on how to handle it. So – if, (or should I say a fight is coming, what should you do?Figure out a time that works for both of you – I am a morning person while my fiance is a night owl.She was on the speech and debate team in high school, which makes our discussions much more interesting.Sometimes she’ll say something and I’m completely floored – I have no idea what to say.
) If you definitely know that it’s not going to work, don’t drag it out – This is a big one.