He was spending a lot of money, & guys usually expect action when they splurge on a girl they aren’t in love with. I know he was my husband, but we hadn’t even kissed yet.I was in no shape or form ready to get intimate with him.A grown-ass virgin woman comes with her hang ups & he didn’t want to have to ‘teach’ anyone stuff in late 20s. To be honest, that’s when I finally realized I was on a HONEYMOON! All the first-night jokes my friends cracked were coming back to me.My husband had paid for a 2-week UK tour for us himself.You will some day be the mother of my children, & I want to keep you on that pedestal always. It was the first time for both of us and it felt really good. Sometimes at her place, sometimes at mine and sometimes we booked a room. We got married and on the night of our marriage we were both comfortable with each other.
In case you were curious about it too, here are the answers which would give you a peep into the lives of such couples: An anonymous woman shared her husband’s reaction on their first night I had a notion that men going for an arranged marriage are usually looking for virgin wives, & in some cases with literally not even a non-sexual ex-boyfriend. Even though he didn’t strike me as one, I kept everything on the table.Now being from a premier institute makes the following things easy – 1) Most of the guys have never been in a relationship before 2) There is no dearth of marriage proposals on matrimony sites. To break the ice, she started talking about something. I also held her tight in my arms and was enjoying my newly found intimacy for the first time. I pushed her back so as not to poke her and scare the shit out of her. Being of the right age to get married (according to my parents), a profile was made on one of the websites and the search began. After a few minutes, there was again complete silence. I said all this when me & my now-husband weren’t even close enough to hold hands. He said he’s glad I shared it with him, & went on to tell me about his past.He said even though he didn’t have a preference, he didn’t expect to have a virgin wife.
He didn’t take money from his dad, my dad, or even from my savings despite my repeated insistence.